The second post of the year, will be related to a very important event happened in December: Maya’s birthday!
I mentioned already the following posts will be a bit messed up timeline-wise, but it’s OK I guess!
I cannot believe Maya is 5 already! She’s growing so fast, it’s unbelievable.
The birthday party I’m talking about in this post was organized for the 3rd birthday we celebrated in Ireland, but it was the first one spent with her friends.
In the past couple of years, I organized her parties in Italy. I have there a couple of friends with kids.
Their age is different from Maya’s though and they weren’t available at all the times.
The rest of the guests were just grownups; sure, family and friends but still adults. We used to organize it in a pub owned by a friend of us.
It had been very nice, but I realize only now that it was more for us that we decided to organize them that way, rather than for Maya.
This year, however, since we were stuck in Ireland, I had to organize the birthday party here.
It was a totally different experience, not only from the organization point of view but also from my own experience! It was incredibly fun!
First of all, we found a place for the party. I had to ask information to other mums in school as I didn’t have the slightest idea of where it was best to organize a party. I went to a couple of parties in the past few years, but it never occurred to me to ask information for some reason.
I was advised about a place not very far from our house. We went to have a look on the way back from a holiday we took in county Clare – I still have to tell you about it. I will, I promise – and Maya loved it immediately. It’s a huge place of soft toys, slides and circuits. A great way to release energies!
Found the location, I asked Maya to give me a list of kids she would like to invite. We sent the cards and also prepared the goodie bags, something absolutely new to me. In Italy, we don’t use the goodie bags, but I prefer this way, it’s nicer!
It was great preparing everything with her. Now that she’s older she’s participating with ideas and help and I think that it’s important in these occasions. Most of all being aware of what you’re doing, makes the realization more interesting.
I have to admit that I was a bit anxious; this time not for me but for her. For a long while the replies didn’t arrive, and I was afraid that the kids won’t show up for some reason. Eventually we had 6 guests and Maya was over the moon and me with her! I could breathe again!
The real fun, then, was to see Maya with her friends, the ones she personally picked, to be part of her special day. They were running up and down the play area, discovering the bits and pieces of that huge place! I found deeply amusing and satisfactory watching her to play with children she knows and of her same age.
So, although almost a month later, I renew once again my happy birthday’s wishes, my love, 100 of these days to the loveliest girl in the world!